Drop your Ego - Dating Fears and Succeed with Women

Why You Could Have Had That Woman You Wanted - Stop losing Connection with the Women you Desire

By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
What if I told you that there is ONE thing that most guys do (including YOU I'll bet) which, more than almost ANYTHING else RUINS the chances of most relationships taking off.
Not only that...
What if I told you that this same ONE thing has caused you (probably many times) to walk away from women YOU told yourself weren't interested when, in reality, THEY WERE INTO YOU! (Women to whom you were REALLY attracted)
Don't believe me? Keep reading, then, because I am going to show you how you may be walking away from these women who are interested in you.
Bottom Line: Your ego is ruining it for you.
Let me give you the classic example. See if this sounds familiar to you.
Here you are. You're hanging out with a woman you’ve been out with three or four times. You’re getting along great, and you know it. You’re having a good time with her.
Then, all of a sudden, she gets scared (which ALWAYS happens). Maybe she all of a sudden stops calling you. Maybe she doesn't text you back right away. Maybe she hesitates about getting together.
What do you do? You let your ego step in to protect you. Your ego goes to work protecting you, and you say to yourself "Screw it. This isn't going to work out."
What's REALLY going on, is that your ego was just protecting you from becoming even more vulnerable. THEN what happens next is that you RATIONALIZE the situation to yourself by doing things like submerging yourself in your work.
Sounding like anyone you know?! The truth is that your ego is just trying to protect you the whole time.
Not missing that great relationship might just take one more phone call. Call that person out and say to them, “Hey, what’s going on? I don’t get it. You and I were having a good time, and then you disappear. What’s up?”
By calling somebody out on their shit, you’re going to get a response that will be FAR different than you ever imagined. Maybe she just needed that extra push. Women like to feel safe.
Maybe she did get a little bit scared. When a woman gets scared, what does she want? She wants to be protected by her man.
A real man is going to make her feel protected and make her feel safe. That’s what women are craving – that feeling of safety and security. Women are nesters.
Women are looking at you as a potential husband or father, and they want to feel very safe. By you saying "screw it" and just walking away at the first little sign of possible rejection, you proved to her that that little doubt that she had about you was 100% correct.
You walked away from a woman who wanted you. WHY?
It's just because you didn’t want to become vulnerable, and you had to protect your ego. You wanted to save face.
From whom did you need to save face anyway? From your friends? From her friends if she talks to them?
If you call her and just ask her what's up, she is going to go to her friends and say, “He called, and he just wants to know what’s going on with me. What should I do?” If her friends know that she likes you, all her friends will be encouraging her to call you.
So your ego just protected you from NOTHING. There are a hundred other similar scenarios like this, but they all have the same moral to the story: You MUST lose the ego.
If you really want a true, spectacular relationship, drop the ego. When you go to meet somebody, drop the ego. Stop worrying about what other people say and just live your life to the fullest every day by becoming vulnerable.
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How to be Unforgettable When First Meeting A Woman - How to Really Stand Out when Approaching Girls

How To Be Unforgettable At First Meeting

By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Did you ever wonder what it takes to really intrigue a woman when you approach her? I mean, what is it that women REALLY want a guy to do when he walks up and talks to her?
Ever wonder what makes women respond positively to one guy who approaches them ... and respond, uh - not so positively to another? Well wonder no more!
There is something ALL women crave in any meeting they have with a man. It's the men who understand this who are the men who become UNFORGETTABLE to women, and are the men women can't wait to tell all their friends about over and over again!
So what is this thing? I'm going to tell you right now, so keep reading.
Women are always talking about one thing. If you go out with a group of women and one of them has a new boyfriend, they are ALWAYS always talking about this one thing.
Let’s say the new boyfriend is meeting the group of friends for the first time. Everyone has been introduced politely, and then all of a sudden one of the friends will ask, “So how did you guys meet? Tell us the story!”
They have probably heard the story at least a thousand times, BUT they want to keep hearing it. WHY? Because they want it to happen to them.
No, they don't want THAT guy to happen to them. They want THAT ROMANCE to happen to them. Women are all about this great romance.
So the woman will start this long story: “Oh, I was in Borough Market waiting in line at Monmouth Coffee Company like I do every single Saturday. All of a sudden this cute guy and I ordered a latte at the very same time. I looked at him and he said to me, ‘Jinx!’ I laughed, and then we both got our coffees ..."
It’s the kind of story that they tell a million times. “Oh my God, I was in the market buying my usual tea, and I dropped the box. This guy picked it up for me and told me I was a klutz, and he hasn’t stopped calling me that since!”
So are you starting to get it? It’s ALL about the story to women. They want to have that story to tell their friends all the time about "that guy."
Do you want to stand out from all the OTHER guys who walk up to women saying the same boring FORGETTABLE things? Do YOU want to be the guy that women are wanting to tell a story about over and over again?
Of course you do. So when you meet women when you're out and about, be ready to tell that story. Be ready to BE that story. You will be a legend.
If you meet her in line at Monmouth Coffee Company, she will text her friends all day long saying, "You won’t believe what happened to me at the market today! I met this guy…” And the story will go from there.
For women, a romance starts from the second that you meet. I went out with someone recently who remembered exactly where we met. She also remembered what day of the week it was and what was going on around town that day. Women remember details like that.
Men don't remember things that way. Well, actually we don't remember a LOT. Ask any man how he met his girlfriend, and you'll get an answer something like “I don’t know, we just kind of met.”
What you have to remember is that women are WIRED DIFFERENTLY, so when you meet her you want to create that romantic moment for her RIGHT from the start. It's all about creating an emotion when you first meet a woman.
The way you walk. The way you talk. The first words that come out of your mouth. THESE are the things that a woman will ALWAYS remember ... and what determines if you will be that unforgettable guy.
But here's the WHOLE KEY to this...
It's NOT what you say, it's HOW you say it! Create that romantic moment for a woman with your words, and you will be amazed at the response you'll get.
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Stop Making Excuses Meet Women Now - Your Biggest Dating Obstacle is YOU

How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Obstacles

By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Let me ask you a few questions, and see if you can relate...
Do you ever feel like the odds are against you in the dating game? Do you feel like there are obstacles in your way that make it more difficult for you than others (or seemingly almost impossible at times) to be successful at meeting and attracting the kind of women you REALLY desire?
Do you feel like NOTHING seems to work (and you've tried it ALL!) no matter how hard you try? Do you feel like the deck is stacked against you? Do you feel like you are just plain unlucky in love? Do you feel like dating is harder for you because of circumstances about you or your life?
I mean, you've tried -- right? -- but you just feel like there is so much in your way...
Well what if I were to tell you that there is NOTHING that holds you back from being able to confidently meet and attract the women you MOST desire, AND that you can get rid of all the obstacles you perceive to be holding you back RIGHT NOW?
It's true.
Without even knowing what your specific issues are in your dating life, I can tell you that you CAN breakthrough and overcome EVERY one of them . . . and do it immediately!
***QUESTION FROM A READER***
Recently on my blog, a reader posted a comment about one of my articles in which he questioned that I or anyone else could help him to be able to meet someone.
He said he has tried “everything” to meet someone. He's tried pick-up lines and routines. He's tried what some term “natural game.” He said nothing he's tried has worked.
Then he started listing some of the reasons WHY things aren't working for him in his dating life.
***MY ANSWER TO THE READER***
His list of "reasons" was VERY long...

• He lives in a woman-less area.
• He isn't good looking enough.
• He doesn't make enough money.
• He just has "bad luck" in dating.
• He only attracts "bad women"

His list went on and on. It isn't necessary to list each of them here, but here's the KEY: What every one of this reader's “reasons” had in common were that THEY WERE ALL EXCUSES!
Worse yet, in his mind this reader perceives each of these to be unchangeable facts of life instead seeing them for what they really are -- excuses he's created so he doesn't have to face his dating difficulties. So many people make these kind of excuses in order to feel justified in not putting themselves “out there” in the dating world, OR to avoid having to face that they need to work on their confidence or conversation skills.
My point here is not to make my reader or any of you who feel like my reader feel badly. It is to make you realize that you are capable of having the kind of AMAZING, FUN and SUCCESSFUL dating life you have convinced yourself is unavailable to you!
I'm going to show you how to get rid of some of these limiting beliefs RIGHT NOW, because I don't want you to spend even ONE more day feeling like you can't meet women you want every day or that there is anything holding you back from having the dating life of your dreams (because there isn't!)
What I'm going to reveal now is how to overcome five of the BIGGEST and most common excuses guys make. All five of these excuses have one thing in common:
They are all manifested inside your mind so you can justify not having to try, and to allow you to feel better about your unsatisfying dating life.
There's no reason for you to suffer through another day of an unsatisfying dating life... NO REASON AT ALL! Before I do that, though, I first have to be straight with you.
What all of you excuse-makers need to realize is that an amazing dating life is not just going to magically happen to you. Just with anything else you want to achieve in life, you've got to put work and effort into meeting women.
Let me assure you that your doorbell is not going to ring one day and when you open the door your perfect woman will be standing there with a bottle of wine and takeout saying, “I've been driving around the neighborhood for the last 15 years looking for your house and now I've finally found you!” (If it does, you and I need to talk!)
So here are five of the biggest and most common excuses guys make about their dating lives, along with proactive ways to overcome those excuses so you will NEVER AGAIN allow yourself to buy into them.
EXCUSE#1: I AM A VICTIM OF GEOGRAPHY
I hear this every day from clients and readers: “David, there are no good women to meet where I live – and everyone I hang out with agrees with me.”
Let me tell you. I hear this “and everyone I know agrees with me” validation for people's excuses more than anything else. The old saying that 'misery loves company' has never been more apropos.
People love to complain, and love even more to find others who will agree with their complaints. You need to go out there with a better attitude.
The fact is, where you live has NOTHING to do with you remaining single. Really...Nothing!
It's your MINDSET and your belief system that are the problem, because there are great women to meet EVERYWHERE. I've worked with people all over the world and no matter where my clients reside I have always been able to show them how to meet great people where they live.
It's your mindset that is dictating your ability to meet someone where you live. If you truly believe that there is nobody great to meet where you live, then you're 100% right and you will NOT find anyone great to meet where you live. So you need to develop a better attitude.
EXCUSE#2: I ATTRACT ALL THE WRONG WOMEN
Another excuse I constantly hear from guys is “David, the only women I seem to attract are the wrong women, and I can't seem to do anything about it.” Oh really?
The truth is that you have the power to do something about it. The reason why you're attracting the wrong women comes down to the way you go out there and meet women.
Look at your life a little more deeply. Are you going to same places over and over again and always meeting the same type of women? Well that could be one of the reasons.
Are you not making yourself available so it's too much of a challenge for people to meet you? That could be another reason.
When you go out on dates, do you tend to talk more about negative things than positive things? This can also bring the wrong women into your life.
The list of questions like these can go on and on, BUT what's important is that you stop thinking about the women that you are meeting and start thinking about HOW you're meeting them. Start thinking about how you can change your life.
In order to meet different people than you've been meeting, you need to change your life immediately.
EXCUSE#3: I DON'T HAVE TIME
If you don't have time to meet someone, then you're not going to meet someone.
Period.
If you truly want to meet someone, you need to make time to do it. It's really that simple.
As I mentioned above, your perfect person is not just going to show up on your doorstep one day. You need to be willing to put some effort into meeting women.
In fact, you need to put time into it every day if you want that to actually happen. This is something I tell all my clients all the time.
Fifteen minutes a day devoted to going out there and meeting new people is all you need. Try setting goals for yourself if that helps you. Tell yourself “I'm going to talk to four new women today” or something like that.
Whatever your goal is, though, you need to make yourself reach it every day. Women aren't just going to start coming over and approaching you.
You've got to make it happen. You've got to make the time. If you're not willing to make the time to meet someone, then you're right when you say you will not meet someone.
I know you're busy. We're all busy. Just remember that this is YOUR life, and only you can make your life happen for you.
EXCUSE#4: I CAN'T MEET ANYONE UNTIL...
Some people's excuses, while phrased less negatively than others, are just as bad in terms of preventing them from facing their dating issues. My favorite one of these is the “as soon as” person. These people are everywhere.
You've heard them, and I certainly have heard them, saying something like "David, as soon as I lose weight I'll go out and talk to people.” There are a million other phrases that could be filled in after the “as soon as” part of that sentence:
As soon as I get back in the gym...
As soon as I finish this big project at work...
As soon as I go on this new diet...
As soon as my kids get older...
I could go on and on for days, But you get the idea. When you start using “as soon as” excuses, you become the person who truly believes that life is going to change the second you accomplish other things.
You've got to start doing this now, because life is all about being in the moment and living in the now. You need to totally get rid of the mindset that you will somehow be magically ready to meet someone “as soon as” you do or accomplish some other thing.
Life is not about scheduling things like this and putting them on a timetable.
Once again this all about your attitude and mindset. You've got to be open to meeting someone all the time.
EXCUSE#5: ONLY LOSERS DO ONLINE DATING
I hear many people who have never tried online dating tell me “I don't want to do online dating. Online dating is for losers.” This is a ridiculous statement. There are millions upon millions of people dating online.
A client of mine once said to me “David, I don't want to put my picture on my online dating profile because someone I know might see it and then they'll know I'm doing online dating.” Let's put aside the fact that if someone sees your online profile, it likely means they themselves are doing online dating.
Here again, there is an attitude problem at work. You need to change the way you see things.
If someone has seen you online, then if they see you in real life they can walk over to you and say: “Did I see you on Yahoo! Personals the other day? I didn't know you were single.”
You've got to tell people you're single and, more importantly, you need to stop feeling like there is something wrong with being single. Going online is making an announcement to the world that “Yes, I'm single, I'm open and I want to meet someone.” You can't just stay in your house and do absolutely nothing.
While online dating may not be for everyone, you need to stay open and take action to improve your dating life. In order to meet great women, you've GOT to decide to be proactive and do all these things. So get RID of the excuses, get rid of the fears, and start meeting great women.
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Online Dating Secrets REVEALED - The Secret to Meeting Sexy Women Online

Online Dating Secret REVEALED
By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
I get literally hundreds of emails from guys who are frustrated and lost when it comes to online dating. They put in the time, they put up what they think is a great profile ... and they send out LOTS of emails to women online.
Unfortunately, and despite all of this, a lot of guys see very little success in the online dating world. Why? Sounds like they're doing everything right, doesn't it?
Well, the truth is that there are a few cardinal mistakes, and a few *SECRETS* that, if they only knew about them, could save most of these men a LOT of time and frustration. So I'm going to reveal one of the biggest mistakes -- and, better yet, one of the biggest SECRETS -- to succeeding in online dating.
Remember when I said above about all the guys who send out LOTS of emails to women online (but don't get a lot of responses)? You would think that just by the law of averages that the more emails a guy sends out, the more responses he proportionately will get. Wrong!
Well, actually, it might be right IF guys were sending out different and unique emails to each of the women. Most guys, however, will create a generic email that they will cut and paste and send to a couple hundred women online.
The truth, and a secret most guys dating online don't know, is that women NEVER respond to these kind of "generic, cut 'n paste" emails. (ESPECIALLY those "10s" online that you most want to intrigue!)
These NEVER work! Did I say these never EVER work?! :-)
Remember that women get hundred of emails a week (and the really hot women get more than that), so if you want to grab women's attention online you MUST intrigue them.
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The Secret to Attracting Amazing Women - How to Connect with Women - Connecting with the Right Women

The Secret To Attracting The Right WomenBy Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Do you ever notice how some guys seem to have great, amazing women virtually fall into their lap . . . and they don't even seem to be TRYING? How do they do it?
And tell me if you've ever had this happen to you...
You ask a friend or family member who found one of these great and amazing women how they did it, and what's their answer? "I found her when I wasn't looking."
Did you just roll your eyes, or perhaps throw something at the computer screen? I hate when people say that!
Also, how exactly do people think you are supposed to take that advice? "Gee, thanks! That is REALLY helpful!"
I totally understand how you feel, but here's the thing...
Where does this advice come from, and why does ANYONE think that NOT being proactive is the key to achieving anything (let alone achieving the goal of finding a truly amazing and deep connection with a woman)?
Well, there is something that you need to think about BEFORE you ever start "looking," and it may be one of the biggest KEYS to how all those people found these amazing women when they "weren't even looking."
So if you want to find truly amazing love, or a truly amazing connection of any kind with a woman, then what I'm going to tell you now is something you will want to read carefully (and probably more than once!)
A few months ago I saw an old friend with whom I grew up and had lunch with him. It was a very memorable 95 degree fall day in Los Angeles. If you are familiar with October weather in Los Angeles, you know that when the Santa Ana winds are blowing it causes intense heat which makes the fall feel like Indian Summer.
We spent a long time catching up with each other and talking. We talked about life and relationships, but the topic of conversation inevitably came back to the status of our respective dating lives. My conversation with him reminded me about a concept I want to share which I call the "open door."
I believe we get to a point in our lives when we think we know everything. The problem with this is that many people at this point believe that they not only know and have experienced everything, but they also believe that there is nothing new left to experience and thus become closed.
They are no longer open to life. They haven't done enough work on themselves to remain open. I was telling my friend that I am right now the most open that I've ever been in my entire life, which seems to be the reverse of how most people's lives go.
Due to their life experiences - hurt, failed relationships, love gone bad - they become more closed to life as time goes on and as they age. As they get older, most people become less open to things.
This is, however, the exact opposite of how you should become in your life as you age. You need to be the most open to life as you get older, because you should be learning and embracing every life lesson as you experience them.
Every single person you've met has been a life lesson for you. You should not thinking that certain people were brought into your life just to hurt you, but instead should think of them as people who were in your life to teach you something.
I told my friend that because I'm right now the most open that I've ever been, I am also right now open to whatever possibilities life might bring me. I'm open to experiencing the most incredible love. I'm open to experiencing the most incredible connection with another person.
The only reason I am so open right now is because of everything I've experienced in my past. So I'm really the polar opposite of where most of the masses are at this same point in their lives, and going in the exact opposite direction emotionally that they are going.
The masses tend to go in the direction of feeling more and more wounded. The masses tend to go in the direction of being less and less open. Going in these directions, though, are the biggest mistakes in the entire world.
Think about it. The new person you met today did not hurt you. That new person you've met has not cheated on you. That new person you met did not betray your love for them.
That new person is in your life to explore new things with you based on everything you've learned in your past. So I think all of you who are spending way too much time thinking about what's happened to you in your past are cheating yourselves.
You're not concentrating on the present, which is where life happens. If you are not open to the amazing things that could come into your life, then you are just "ripping yourself off" from so much of what is out there waiting for you.
So I want to challenge all of you by asking you this question: Are you living in the past? Ask yourself whether you are allowing past failures, mistakes and pain to dictate the way you're currently conducting yourself in relationships, OR whether you are 100% in tune with what is happening presently so you are able to embrace whatever is happening to you at this moment.
Living and embracing the present are the ONLY way to live. Being open to life right now is the only way I'm choosing to live. I am so open for the amazing love in my life, because I know I'd be cheating myself if I didn't allow myself to experience that.
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