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How To Avoid That BAD First Date
By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Want To Avoid That BAD First Date? OK, let's all admit it. First dates can be, well, kind of awful!
It's not that you don't like the girl with whom you're on the date, and it's not that you don't want to HAVE the date at all. It's that first dates can feel tense, awkward, pressured, and downright stressful sometimes. Also, to tell you the truth, I used to REALLY not have fun on a lot of first dates.
Can you relate to any of this? Have you ever felt like this about first dates? So what's going on here?
Well there is something that happens on a large numbers of first dates that really set a first date up for FAILURE (or at least make it as difficult as possible to have a great time)
So what can really KILL any potential for success on a first date? What do you usually plan for a first date?
I mean, where do you usually take your dates on a first date? Hmmm... Let me guess. Dinner (and maybe a movie)? Putting aside the issue of this being a total cliché, it's also about the WORST option you can choose for a first date.
Here's why...
Actually, let me ask you a question first. Why on earth would you take someone out for dinner on a first date, unless of course the woman is homeless and she needs a good meal? To sit across from somebody and watch them chew down food while you tell each other the same stories you've told a hundred times is

boring!
The reason why most of us don't enjoy dating is because we go out on dinner dates. Now, granted, having dinner with someone is fantastic when you're with a person whose company you enjoy and with whom you already have some sort of relationship.
There's one BIG difference though on a first date. Think about whether this is true or not (and I'm betting for you, like most of us, it is). Being forced to sit at a table exchanging resumes with a total stranger is the reason why most of us don't like to date, but yet we still conduct dinner dates.
So what are the alternatives to the boring clichéd dinner date? Now before you get ready for me to bust out a numbered “Top Ten Things To Do Instead Of A Dinner Date” lists, though, it's NOT.
For one thing, I think we have been 'top 10 listed' to death on the Internet. PLUS it's really time YOU figured out what YOU like to do, and also listened to what the person you're interested in likes to do, so you can come up with clever dates.
Don't worry, though, because I am going to HELP get your thinking started and I am going to give you examples of some of the things I like to do. By doing that, it will help you so you can make up your own personal list.
***DAVID'S FAVORITE FIRST DATES***
I like to check out new neighborhoods by walking around and checking out the stores. (That's one of my favorite dates).
I like to do dragio - which is hiking and dragging my lazy dog up the hill. This is a great first date to just talk and enjoy the outdoors.
I enjoy going to art galleries.
I like to walk along the beach.
I enjoy going to fun coffee and tea shops and sampling new teas.
These are some of the things that I enjoy doing. So when I have a first date, I listen to what they like -- then what I do is make the date fun. You do this because, if you think about it, when you do get into a relationship with someone you will not spend every evening exchanging resumes over dinner.
You're going to be doing things you both enjoy. By picking something more interesting than dinner for a first date, you are also giving each other fun things to talk about while you're shopping together (OR walking on the beach together, OR going to Target together OR doing WHATEVER might be fun for you).
The reason why so many of us don't like to date is because it is so formal. Dinner dates are formal and boring. You spend the night evaluating each other, then you come home and you're evaluating each other some more with your friends.
Activity dates are fun and memory-building. If you are familiar with what I teach, you know how important I believe it is for you to be memorable in life.
So instead of asking all of you to make a list of 50 great dates, I would like to have you concentrate on thinking of great first date ideas that YOU enjoy. So now, unless you are dating a homeless woman who really needs to be fed, it's time to get creative in your dating!
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Having No Confidence Meeting Women - Being Fearless when Approaching Women - Believe in Yourself

having no confidence is what stops you being successful with women
By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you TRY, and despite the fact that you go out and do EVERYTHING I tell you to DO, that you just can't meet women?

How frustrating!

Do you wonder why some guys do EXACTLY the same things you're doing and attract women everywhere, and yet you are not having that same success and aren't seeing the same results.
So, what is going on here? Is there just something "special" about these other guys? (Hint: The answer is NO) Or...Is there something about YOU that just isn't attractive to women?
The answer is ... yes and no. Huh? I can hear you now thinking, 'Wait a minute David, are you saying I'm NOT attractive?!'
Absolutely NOT! In fact, let me tell you something -- and you need to pay CLOSE attention here. YOU can meet and attract women every day and everywhere you go -- and you can be totally 100% successful in your dating life.
And you can do it RIGHT NOW ... BUT (isn't there always a "but?") there MAY be something about you right now that IS keeping you from attracting women.
I'm going to tell you the NUMBER ONE thing you need to have to attract women which you very likely may be MISSING, and how working on changing this ONE THING will immediately and completely change your success in meeting women.

Yes, it's THAT powerful!

See, I hate seeing you so frustrated, because I believe that you are putting the time and the effort into going out there. The problem is that you are ONLY working on the DOING part, and you are missing a KEY and CRITICAL part to the equation.
Let's talk about this, because if you work on this, you will see a MASSIVE TRANSFORMATION in the kind of response you are getting from women.
Pretty exciting, huh?
OK ... So, let's start with a request from me: I want you to go look in the mirror and tell me what you see.

• Do you like who you see?
• Are you comfortable with the person you see?
• If you were someone else, would you want to meet you?

It is really important when you're trying to meet women that you like yourself. It is important because if you don't like yourself, then no one else is going to like you either.
If you walk around believing that you can't meet somebody, then your whole energy is just that. If you walk around believing that you can't meet somebody, then guess what ... you are NOT GOING TO meet somebody.
Nobody is going to rescue you. There is no one person in the world who is going to rescue you from you.
In order to be able to go out and meet women, you've got to first start a relationship with yourself. When you wake up every morning, you have got to feel good about yourself.
You have to like yourself. You have to like who you are. You have to like what you're all about.
It is ESSENTIAL that you love who you are and what you're all about.
It doesn't matter if you buy all my products and learn every single technique I teach on how to attract women, because if you don't find yourself attractive

then nobody else will either. Period. It's just a fact.
There are some good exercises to help you find yourself attractive. For one, ask yourself whether you like your wardrobe. Do you like the way you look in your clothes? Any clothes you don't like your body in you should give to charity.
Do you like the way your body looks? If you don't like the way your body looks, start working out. Get on a good exercise and diet regimen. You are not going to become confident overnight, nor are you going to get to your ideal fighting weight overnight.
By taking small steps every day, however, you ARE going to feel more confident. And this alone will make the BIGGEST difference in how attractive you are to women.
Becoming a confident person just doesn't happen with the snap of the fingers.
It takes time, work and effort.
Another great thing to do in January is to get yourself some new clothes. With all the after-Christmas sales, most clothing items are 50% off.
Let me suggest something FUN to do while you're shopping. Go to a lot of clothing stores and try on a lot of different clothes.
Have a sales girl take digital pictures of the clothes you try on. Then at the end of the day, take a look at all the pictures and see what you like the best.
The next day go back and purchase the clothes that looked best on you. You'll see which ones those are in the pictures.
The clothes that look the best on you will also be the clothes in which you will have the most fun. Don't buy the first thing you see just because the sales girl was cute. (I know more than a few of you have done this!)

Take your time. You are trying to formulate a new you.

The number one thing about a man that is attractive to women is inner confidence. She is not going to believe in you if you don't believe in you.
So you might as well start packaging yourself better so you can start to believe in yourself better. It all starts with YOU.
Working on the external is a fast way to feel better. Working on the internal takes a lot more time, BUT is more than worth the time and work.
The internal work is what will allow you to cultivate the kind of deep and real inner confidence that will not only allow you to be able to attract the women you MOST desire but, even BETTER, it will allow you to ENJOY your life and the process of meeting women every day.
Imagine how THAT would feel! (and you CAN feel that way for the rest of your life)
One thing that helps with the internal part is goal setting. Work on small parts of you every single day. By doing this you will start to feel better about yourself every single day.
I could throw every cliché in the book at you - Rome wasn't built in a day OR You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink - but EVERYTHING in life takes time, effort and energy. The problem is that we live in a culture that is based on instant gratification.
That is why embracing small wins every single day is really important. If you went out tomorrow and purchased some new clothes that make you feel better about yourself, that's a win.
If you decide to start working out, you may not have your ideal body type in a day. Every day you work out, however, you are that much closer to having your ideal body type.
So do something every day that's going to get you closer to being more confident. Also, stop trying to fix a lifetime of problems overnight.
When I work with a client who is stubborn and who has a lifetime of insecurity and self-doubt, I will keep working with them until they understand and embrace the greatness that they are. (and let me tell you ... I have had some REALLY stubborn clients)
I have had clients who will give up on themselves really easily. I don't give up on people, though, because I truly believe that we all have the power to become who we want to be. So don't give up on you!
If I knew you personally, not only would I not give up on you but I would kick your ass and help you realize how powerful, sexy and confident you can be around women.
If you want to learn how to breakthrough all your fears and excuses, and how to cultivate the kind of deep inner confidence that will allow you to easily and enjoyably attract women every day, then click here to read more:
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How to Talk to Women in Bars and Clubs - What do I Say? Meet Girls - Digital Camera Approach

How To EASILY Talk To Women In Bars - Talking to Women in Bars and Clubs
By Legendary Dating Coach David Wygant
Tell me if this sounds at all familiar to you (although I'm betting the answer is YES). You go out to a bar because you want to meet women, BUT once you're there you always STRUGGLE to come up with something to say.
To be more specific, you really struggle because you are not sure what is the RIGHT thing to say to the women you want to meet. Am I right?
Well, you are CERTAINLY not alone in this. In fact, this is probably over the course of my 11 years of coaching men one of the MOST COMMON things that guys struggle with in meeting women.
I have men who email me on their BlackBerry from inside bars when they see a woman they want to talk to but are frozen because they don't know what to say. They'll text me and say, "David, I see this beautiful woman across the bar. What do I say? How do I come up with something really clever to say that will intrigue her?”
I have news for you, and it's just a fact of meeting women in bars: Most women will do nothing. They will check a guy out a bunch of times, but will rarely ever talk to (or even say hello to) a guy.
So where does this leave you? Don't worry - you just need to realize this fact and come up with a whole different approach.
Luckily I can HELP YOU do this ... AND it can be both EASY and FUN!
I'm not kidding. And I'm going to give you one of my FAVORITE TIPS for how to EASILY approach women in a bar.
You will love this one...
But before I get there, if you want to learn how to create approaches that will help you meet women ANYPLACE and in ANY SITUATION, click here to read more:

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Okay, so let's get back to this great APPROACH I want to tell you about.
How many times have you been out at night, and a group of women are taking those ridiculous digital camera pictures? I know you've seen them...
I mean really, how many pictures do women need of they and their friends drinking? I know most women love putting these pictures up on their online dating profile.
===> Extra Tip: These kind of pictures, by the way, are really poor choices to put on your profile, because if you put up three pictures of you getting sloshed when in fact you don't really drink that often, this will tend to cause a disconnect somewhere. Not only that, but when I look at pictures of women (or men) drinking in their online profile, especially if they have more than one of those kind of pictures, I don't see “fun person” ... I see “lush.”
But I digress...
Here is how to have a fun time with those party girls with the digital camera, and how to be able to approach them EASILY at the same time. A way to approach beautiful women that's easy and fun -- sounds pretty good, right?
So here's how you do it...
I was out with a client the other night, and we saw one of these groups of girls taking pictures of themselves with their digital camera. My client said to me “I am going to go over there and take their picture.”
I said “No, no, no ... You don't want to be a photographer. Everybody uses that approach. You need to walk over and say 'Let me take your picture' just like you were going to, but you need to add one more element after you've finished taking their picture.”
Then I described to him a BETTER way to approach this situation. I told him “Hand the camera to one of her friends and say 'Now take a picture of all of you with me.'
Stand in the middle of the group for the picture and put your arms around the two girls next to you. When you're there, follow-up very quickly and say to both of them, 'Now you can tell your friends that I was the crazy guy you slept with that night.'
One of them is going to respond, if not both, and they are going to laugh. You're then going to say 'You better tell your friends that I was good.' Then you start talking about the great sex that you had with her.”
Then I sent my client over to try it with that group of girls. This is a far more interesting approach then just taking their picture. It also just leads to much more fun stories, especially when people are drunk and having fun.
So try this approach the next time you're out. You might be surprised how EASY and fun it can be to approach women ...
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